All (sex) work and no play makes.....

If a tree falls in the forest, and no one is there to hear it, does it make a sound? If you write a blog and no one reads it, is it really a blog?

We were really happy to have our first comment to this blog. At least somebody enjoys reading this (besides us, of course). Danni ended up chatting with our "commentator" for a bunch of the afternoon, since she was home recovering from some dental work. Fortunately, the AC is back working, so it's tolerable to be in the house.

And since she was home, Danni did a bunch of "sex work" sending messages out to all the hot couples on the various swinger sites we belong to. We'll be at MAC on the 16th and she's trying to set up a nice big orgy in our room with a bunch of full swap bi-f, str8-m couples. While we've been playing a lot lately either 2 on 2, or fmf, we haven't had a nice full on orgy in months.

If you're going to be at the party and want to join in, let us know.

So hot, so so hot

If you live in Virginia, you know how hot it is now. And if you know us, you know how we aren't outdoor types, but very much a "controlled temperature" type of couple. So, when the air conditioning breaks down, you know how miserable we can be. Well, the blower crapped out on us today. It's 83 in here, and probably warmer up in the bedroom. Things get hot enough in our bedroom, we don't need to add to the heat.

We had a great time with D & M last night. Danni's recovery was nothing short of a miracle, having a four-way last night certainly wasn't on my to-do list when I woke up in the morning.

We hopped right into the jacuzzi and the girls had their fun while we were able to take in the view. Soon things went upstairs. Needless to say, fun was had by all. Our AC must have stopped during our play, since everyone was pretty hot while playing. Or maybe we just overheated the system, lol.

D has really progressed in her adventuring into the lifestyle. She IM'd in the morning, saying "Thanks again for a great evening once again. Did you notice I didn't even need alcohol to take it to the next level. I have gotten completely comfortable." Comfortable is an understatement.

Danni is cleaning up our AFF account, reducing our network friends where the couple seems to have gone AWOL, or we don't see them as a realistic prospect to hook up with. Too many couples seem to be picture collectors, or not ready to enter the lifestyle. If you've noticed that we've taken you out of our network, but you think that we may be mistaken in our assumptions about you, just let us know. We're just trying to keep our "network" to a manageable list. Sometimes it can just get out of control, lol.

Lifestyle = Honesty

Well Danni is feeling better, she slept in until about 10 and by 3 she had called D & M to play tonight.

Danni was so sick yesterday that we actually didn't have sex last night, which is amazingly rare for us. But she was nice enough to hold my hand and watch me as I "serviced" myself. Isn't that what's great about the lifestyle? The honesty!!

Which brings me to the point of today's posting. Honesty, and how the lifestyle allows for the kind of relationship that you never have experienced before.

We were both married before. While I, B, never cheated on my ex (though she thinks I did) our sex life really went downhill as the marriage progressed. And guys, if you're like me, you know what it's like to go a couple of days without shooting a load. After a point, you don't care how or where, you just need to cum.

Well, there's no way that I could have just jerked off in front of her on nights she didn't want to have sex (which eventually became most nights). I also could never mention that a certain woman was cute, or that I had certain desires that I wanted to explore.

With Danni, since we don't have any sexual secrets, there's really no reason to ever lie about anything. If I see a girl that's hot, I can say so. If she sees a girl (or guy) that's hot, she can say so. And we do often. We separate sex from love and understand that wanting variety is healthy and normal.

And if nothing is taboo (at least to talk about) then we can explore anything we like, and not do things that we aren't interested in.

Honesty is the one thing, though, that we find many couples don't seem to understand about the lifestyle.

Let me give you an example of honesty in the lifestyle. When you say you want to play with a couple and set up plans, you either show up, or call to cancel. We're amazed at the number of couples that will talk with Danni via phone and set up a time and place, and then don't show. We actually had a newbie couple that IM'd us today that had blown us off. When we reminded them that we had plans and they were a "no-show", they said "oh, well it got really late, and since we made our plans so last minute (that afternoon)...we didn't bother to call...sorry to offend."

Danni here...I decided to add my 2 cents! We tried to explain that we weren't offended but just trying to educate them on proper protocol. We're real people, just like them. They wouldn't do that to their non-swinging friends nor would they appreciate having the same done to them. Not sure we got through to them, though. Unfortunately, we see that a lot with lifestyle couples. Not sure what makes people think that good social skills should be thrown out the window in the lifestyle. Or else, they never learned them in the first place.

Well, have to run for now....D & M are on their way over, after D shaves! LOL Doesn't want to cut anyone! xoxo, Danni (&B)

All sick and no play makes danni654 a dull couple

Well, our planned playtime with M & D had to get cancelled tonight. We (Danni) aren't feeling very well. She's got a sinus infection of some sort (using my advanced medical degree terminology). Sniffles, achy and generally run down, we're just taking it easy tonight. Though it's ok to sniffle between ourselves while we're fucking, we figure that it's kind of rude to do with our invited guests. Hopefully, we can reschedule with M & D really soon. We've chatted today on yahoo a bit so hopefully calendars will cooperate.

We're getting ready to have B's kids here Sat-Wed. We try to get them to VA at least twice a year and the balance of the time we travel to see them, every 3 weeks.

And finally, Danni sent out some messages to our "adult" friends that we've started this blog, so to all of you, a big kiss and a squeeze of your best parts, lol. Feel free to comment and suggest.

VAF Short Shorts party

We've just gotten home from Virginia Friends. This is probably the best swinger party in Virginia and meets monthly in a hotel near Richmond.

The party starts in the hotel bar, which is closed off for the party. This is where you get to meet lots of sexy people from all walks of life. Some couples are complete newbies, never having done any sort of swinging and aren't really sure if it's for them or not.

Others, like us, are pretty much whores, and are ready to fuck.

At midnight, the party moves upstairs to a hallway that's reserved for VAF members. Pretty much anything is allowed there. There's food available, music playing, and a lot less clothing than downstairs. That's a good thing.

The night will end in a variety of ways. Some like orgies, others meet 2 on 2, and others just go back to their rooms and have great sex just between themselves.

Well, we got to the hotel really late on Friday. B had a work dinner thing and we weren't able to get to Richmond until 11. By the time we got checked in and unpacked, it was close to the end of the bar portion of the party, so we figured that we'd just check out the hallway action. Friday's are usually much more quiet than Saturday, but with the new hotel the party recently moved to, both nights seemed pretty packed.

We got undressed into our hallway attire. Danni wears close to nothing for the floor, she's not a shy girl. B usually throws on some silky sweats, the better to feel you with.

Well, we were set to go, when Danni got the idea to give B a little lap dance. That led to getting B hard. From there, Danni pulled out B's cock and started to suck it. Just teasingly at first, just to rev up our engines from a very long day of work. B then flipping Danni over and starting licking her pussy. Danni is nicely shaved, and B's long tongue went deep inside of her. It became clear that we weren't going to make it to the hallway.

So, what clothes we had on quickly came off and we started fucking and sucking. Danni handcuffed B, though there was nothing to be cuffed to, and then blindfolded him. Danni sat on B's face, pushing her dripping wet cunt onto his long thrusting tongue. After some more fucking, B asked Danni to sit her ass on B's cock, which Danni was more than happy to do. Danni loves anal, and her ass seems to be penetrated every night now, with something or other.

After some hot anal, B had to get out of the cuffs and lose the blindfold. We flipped Danni over doggie style and started fucking her with her pearl butterfly vibrator. But her ass had been so worked on earlier, and looked so tempting, that B just had to add a little double penetration to the action. He shoved his cock deep into that inviting ass with no resistance. Between the tight ass and the vibrator next to his cock, it took about 5 strokes to him to release his load deep up her ass. He fingered fucked her ass a bit more and then Danni cried out with one of her "guy" orgasms.

We soon passed out.

Saturday came too early, and we went to lunch at a local TGI Friday's. Chicken wings for B (he's just not a health nut) and we went off to the movies to see Mr. and Mrs. Smith. We both lusted after Angelina Jolie. We both give the movies thumbs up. Action, laughs, and a really hot chick, what's not to like.

We were back to the hotel in the afternoon. We lazed around a bit, trying to reserve energy for the nighttime festivities. Danni joined in on the newcomers session, giving her point of view for new couples. Some folks need to be friends first, others like us, don't. She gives the perspective of a very bi-sexual woman that just likes to fuck.

We headed to the party around 9ish, and mingled and chatted with lots of friends, some we've played with, others that we just met that night.

We were pleasantly surprised to see L (bi-f) and M (str8-m) at the party. They're a fun couple that we played with last year, and we hadn't seen them since. Turns out that they hadn't been to VAF since we all played. The girls, Danni and L, spent some time kissing and fondling each other, while B had a nice close up view, holding them both lovingly. We had hoped that we might have ended up the night with them, but they had come to the party with another couple (and their single f), so we suspect that they ended up leaving with them.

The bar was incredibly warm, so B left for our room around 1130 to take a shower. Nothing worse than being sweaty when you're flirting with naked girls. Danni got to the room around midnight, and we started fooling around, just like Friday night. We both had to just step back, we didn't want two nights to go by without even stepping into the hallway party.

So out in the hall we went. We have become accustomed to having a regular couple G (str8 M)and J (bi-f) that we would play with at most parties, and often others would join us. We also regularly make online plans prior to the party to meet a specific couple. Well, G and J seem to have taken "time off" from the lifestyle, and we hadn't preplanned anything with any particular couple. We talked to lots of couples, but Danni seemed to be hitting on the women that were not very bi. And Danni needs her pussy. Having a women that is a "little bi" just isn't going to cut it for Danni. After about a half hour in the hallway, we decided to just go back to the room and fuck each other. This would turn out to be the first party in our 2 years at VAF that we didn't have anyone join us in the bedroom.

Of course, our sex was great. We haven't mentioned it yet, but Danni is a squirter. And not just a dribble. Think about squeezing a 20 ounce bottle of water. No kidding. And last night she completely soaked the bed. She squirted maybe 10 different times, to the point where there was standing water on the sheets. It's fun to create, but not the best to sleep in. We ended up taking the comforter and flipping it upside down and sleeping on it. We always feel bad for housekeeping.


So we're home now, setting up this blog site, and resting up for D (bi-f) and M(str8-m), who are coming over tomorrow night. We just met them a couple of weeks ago, and had a great time introducing D into the world of bisexuality. She's overcome her shyness (well, she still got naked in the swing, so she's isn't that shy), and we're ready for round 2 tomorrow.

We'll let you know.

Welcome to our Blog

Welcome to our blog! This post explains who we are and what we're all about.

We're pretty new to this whole world of blogging. So "bare" with us as we get a feel for what we're doing. We spend a lot of time having sex, so we haven't spent a lot of time studying the finer points of blogging.

First off, a little bit about us. We're Danni & B. Danni is a 45 year old female and very bisexual while B is a 43 year old male and straight, just like most swinger couples, at least the ones we know and play with.

That's right, we're swingers. So if sex bothers you, you'll want to stop reading right now. We plan on getting pretty graphic here, though we won't use names or face pictures at all. We're very discrete, and everyone we know in this lifestyle is as well. We're as professional and high-profile as you can get, so we understand discretion.

Both of us were married before, met online and agreed to a dinner. Well, that dinner moved back to B's place that night, and we had mind blowing sex that first night. When Danni let B fuck her with a beer bottle on the first date, he knew that he had found his soulmate.

We've been together ever since meeting, live together in a place we built last fall (Sept 2005), and are loving life.

B has two children that live with their mother; Danni never had kids, and her body shows it.

We started swinging within two weeks of meeting, though neither of us ever had done anything like this before. Danni set us up on AFF, SLS and Swappernet, always as Danni654.

Oh, and why Danni654? Well, Danni had a thing for Danni Ashe way back when and the 654 is simply easy to type in the dark. It's pretty much as simple as that. Gotta admit, she looks damn good.

We try to "play" as much as possible. We go to swinger clubs regularly, our favorite is Virginia Friends though we go to TPA, MAC, and Entre Nous when the calendar (or planned playmate hookup) allows. We have tons of photos on each of our profiles, although we don't provide face pictures unless we plan to meet.

So, welcome to our blog, and feel free to post any comments. We'll try to keep up and respond as much as possible. Feel free to email us as well.

Thanks for reading.

xoxo, Danni&B