tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13976591.post116216077631214496..comments2024-02-04T20:24:07.428-05:00Comments on Danni654 Swingertime: Desire Cancun LT&T Takeover – an eight part series, Part ThreeB of Danni and Bhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14018835902382199649noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13976591.post-1162704557610955312006-11-05T00:29:00.000-05:002006-11-05T00:29:00.000-05:00More on my "bareback" comment in this post:We've h...More on my "bareback" comment in this post:<BR/><BR/>We've heard the argument by other swingers for using condoms with their playmates. We appreciate the argument, but these same people also engage in unprotected oral sex with others. So I did a little research for you. Please read on...<BR/><BR/>From: <A HREF="http://www.avert.org" REL="nofollow">AVERT</A><BR/><BR/><B>Oral Sex Is Not Considered Safe Sex</B><BR/><BR/>Studies have demonstrated that oral sex can result in the transmission of HIV and other STDs. HIV- the virus, which can cause AIDS, is in the blood, breast milk, vaginal fluid or semen of someone with HIV, so you are at risk if you get any of these fluids in your bloodstream. <BR/><BR/>In fellatio and cunnilingus, there is a risk of transmission for the receptive partner (the person who is licking and/or sucking) because infected pre-ejaculate ("pre-cum") fluid, semen or vaginal fluid and blood can get into the mouth. (This includes, but is not limited to, menstrual blood.) For the insertive partner (the person who is being sucked or licked), there is a risk of infection because infected blood from a partner's bleeding gums or an open sore could come in contact with a scratch, cut, or sore on the penis or vagina.and blood can get into the mouth. <BR/><BR/>Although the risk is many times smaller than anal or vaginal sex, HIV has been transmitted to receptive partners through fellatio and cunnilingus, even in cases when insertive partners didn't ejaculate ("cum").<BR/><BR/>Anilingus carries a small risk of transmission for the insertive partner (the person who is licking or sucking the anus) if there is exposure to infected blood, either through bloody fecal matter (bodily waste) or cuts/sores in the anal area. Anilingus carries a theoretical risk to the receptive partner (the person who is being licked/sucked) if infected blood in saliva comes in contact with anal/rectal lining.<BR/><BR/>If you are concerned about becoming infected with a STD, one should use a condom when giving oral sex to a man or a dental dam (latex square) when giving oral sex to a woman.<BR/><BR/>Herpes, syphilis, gonorrhea, genital warts (HPV), intestinal parasites (amebiasis), and hepatitis A are examples of other STDs which can be transmitted during oral sex with an infected partner.<BR/><BR/>You cannot pass on or become infected with an STD as a result of kissing. However, you could pass on cold sores (herpes simplex, HSV1) to your partner through kissing.<BR/><BR/>Any sexual activity, which can lead to bleeding or cuts/breaks in the lining of vagina or anus, is considered risky, including 'fisting' or certain S&M activities. <BR/><BR/>The only "safe sex" is sex that doesn’t allow any infected body fluid to enter your body – and doesn’t allow you to infect your partner, either. Activities that are safe include hugging, touch, massage, masturbation. Sex toys, whatever, are fine, too – just put a condom over them, and if you switch them from one person’s body to another’s – change the condom.<BR/><BR/>So, unless you are practicing safe sex all-the-way-around, we're not sure we understand the condoms-only rule during full swap. <BR/><BR/>Just my 2 cents.Danni of Danni and Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04337475643635853256noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13976591.post-1162676547334920812006-11-04T16:42:00.000-05:002006-11-04T16:42:00.000-05:00The beginning of the week and good fun already (in...The beginning of the week and good fun already (insert jealous sigh here!). <BR/><BR/>Is it Thanksgiving yet?????The Ethical Sluthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16269154077952403876noreply@blogger.com